Anthony Hopkins Reflects on Estrangement from Daughter Abigail
In his memoir We Did OK, Kid, Anthony Hopkins opens up about his strained relationship with his daughter Abigail Hopkins, born to his first wife, Petronella Barker. The two-time Oscar winner describes the estrangement as something that "broke my heart."
Background of the Family Struggles
Hopkins, now 87, discusses the challenges that led to the breakup of his marriage to Barker, now 83, and the lasting impact on their child, Abigail, 57. At the time of their marriage in 1967, Hopkins was struggling with alcoholism, which played a significant role in the volatile nature of their relationship.
“Our opposing personalities and my alcoholism doomed the relationship from the start.”
The couple realized early on that they were a poor match, especially after discovering Barker was pregnant. Despite attempts to keep the family together for their child's sake, the marriage ultimately failed.
“By the time we realized how awful a match we were, Barker was pregnant. We tried to rally for the sake of the child we were about to have, but it was no use. The marriage was a disaster.”
Conflicts and Tensions
Their frequent arguments revolved around Hopkins' alcoholism and Barker’s resentment toward his acting career. On one occasion, after returning from filming in Scotland, Barker sarcastically greeted Hopkins, calling him “Mr. Lord High and Mighty.”
Hopkins' Current Stance
Despite the pain caused by their estrangement, Hopkins has kept his door open to his daughter, showing a willingness to reconcile.
“My door is always open to her.”
Author’s summary: Anthony Hopkins candidly shares the heartbreak and complexity behind his estranged relationship with his daughter, emphasizing hope for reconciliation despite past hardships.