Sir Anthony Hopkins conveyed a heartfelt message to his estranged daughter, Abigail, in his memoir We Did OK, Kid, released on November 4, 2025. At 87, Hopkins expressed his hope that Abigail knows his door is always open to her and wishes her well-being and happiness.
“I hope my daughter knows that my door is always open to her. I want her to be well and happy.”
Hopkins reminisced about Abigail’s early years, recalling the joy of seeing her laugh in her crib and the sorrow of leaving the family behind. He acknowledged the pain his departure caused and expressed ongoing regret for hurting her, despite believing he had no alternative at the time.
“Until the day I die, I will never forget the sight of her in that crib, laughing up at me when I walked in the room the first year of her life, sleeping soundly the night I left. I will always be sorry for hurting her when I left the family, even as I believe to this day that I had no choice.”
Hopkins shares Abigail with his first wife, Petronella Barker, whom he was married to from 1966 to 1972. The memoir recounts their turbulent marriage, intensified by his struggle with alcohol addiction, which contributed to his decision to leave the family.
During his journey to sobriety, Hopkins sought to make amends, apologizing to both Barker and Abigail. He recounted flying to London in 1997 when Abigail was nine to talk with them, though the meeting was strained and the family appeared unwilling to welcome him fully.
“We put up a good front, but obviously so much damage had been done. They didn’t want me there. Throughout the meal, they kept catching each other’s eye and making faces.”
Hopkins also recalled that Abigail stayed with him several times during her teenage years, indicating moments of connection despite their complicated relationship.
Summary: Anthony Hopkins shares a poignant message of love and regret to his daughter Abigail in his memoir, reflecting on his past struggles and hopes for reconciliation.